Would a White guy date an Indian girl?
Friday 9 January 2009Okay I'm an American girl of Indian origin. My parents moved from India. I want to know would white guys date an Indian girl? And, I'm being serious. Because whether they would or wouldn't, it seems like it's so much harder for them. I know one of the reasons is because there are a bunch of stereotypes that people lock on to us, like the following which I want to disprove:
indian girls smell of spicy food and onions- wow this just comes from people who think indian girls cook all the time and only one type of food. i'm only a high school senior, but seriously i enjoy indian food, italian, chinese, mexican, everything.
indian girls have very strict parents- well maybe some do, but i don't. i have the most open minded parents, they are completely open to me dating anyone and really hold no judgement. they're pretty liberal in their ideologies.
indian girls wait for sex- well some do, just as in all other races. personally, i disagree that marriage should suddenly give the label 4 sex
you have sex when you feel it's right.
indian girls are super religious- there are devout hindus in india, but not everyone is. and the thing about hindus is that it is one of the most open religions out there. it embraces so many other religions, just look at the diversity of religion in india. i don't understand how religion could stop you from dating a girl. personally, i consider myself a hindu atheist. i believe in only the philosophical part of the religion, but not to the extreme.
all indians are hardcore vegetarians- well i'm disproving this one by saying many people restrict meat. the only actual meat that almost everyone stays away from is cow meat. nevertheless nowadays many eat meat. i fit the stereotype, however, because i have personally chosen to become a vegetarian because i believe it is morally the right thing to do. nevertheless, my whole family eats meat.
so i just want to know why white guys don't date indian girls that often? stereotypes are so generalizing.
i didn't mean to specifically target white men. but i think other races don't generalize the indian girls as much, and so i didn't address it that way.
but this post is more for anyone outside of the indian race considering whether or not to date an indian girl.
I'm dating an Indian girl right now and let's just say her parents are the "devout" Hindu parents you are talking about. We have been really close friends for about 3 years now and only for about 6 months have been dating. Right now her parents think we're just good friends and haven't broken it to them yet. I'm 23 and she's 21. I have never heard of those stereotypes but I would hope they're not true. I think my girlfriend is flat out gorgeous and I know so many attractive Indian girls. I have always been attracted to them and have always gotten along well with Hindu's because they are very nice, loving people, and aren't spoiled and don't take things for granted like many Americans do. They're very respectful of other faiths.
Her parents are strict and very religious but she really isn't (I hope it doesn't cause grief for her down the road). We had sex when we felt it was right, and cared about each other enough to do so. I would say my girlfriend is very "Americanized" though because she grew up here. Her parents have a hard time seeing her point of view. I suppose one day her parents are going to be very disappointed she's breaking the "barrier" but we both want to be happy and that's the most important thing. I also am very respectful to the Hindu culture. I love it, I really would love to get to know her family deeper, she even has been teaching me to speak some basic Hindi.
If anyone else is in a similar situation and ever wants to discuss it I think about it alot so feel free to message or e-mail me.
I'm really hoping I don't offend her family down the road. To answer your question: I think the BIGGEST reason white guys might not be open to dating Hindu's is because of the culture barrier and the strict parents, I thought about that alot before dating my current g/f, but cared about her too much to let that stop me. With my parents its no big deal, I can date whoever I want, I'm Christian, but with Hindu's its alot more serious to them.
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